Why It’s Important to Use the Right Body Language

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You may have heard that women are naturally attracted to men who demonstrate confident body language. That’s true, but it isn’t the most important thing. This site is sort of about being attractive to women. But, there is a more important thing that this site is really about… your mental health.

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Body language affects your mood. If you’re feeling angry or sad at the moment, smile for a minute. Just relax your jaw and let the ends of your lips point upward. Soon, you’ll find you don’t have to fake the smile, it will be natural.

However, there is more to body language than just a smile or a frown. Confident body language is the same way. If you feel confident, you’ll naturally start to demonstrate confident body language. Also, if you use confident body language, you will soon start to feel more confident and you can stop faking the body language. It’s a wonderful sort of catch 22 that you should use to your advantage. That is why it pays to study confident body language and use it.
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Do Nice Guys Finish Last?

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The short answer to this question is yes.

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However, when you examine the answer as to why nice guys finish last, it really makes a lot of sense. It can be boiled down to a simple mathematical equation: (Nice = Boring). Think about it. Nice is the default compliment you would give to someone who you can’t say anything else about. As long as they’re not mean, they’re nice.

So if you can ever recall being dumped with a line that started with the words, “You’re a really nice guy, but…” and ended with the words “…I think we should just be friends,” you shouldn’t blame the girl. Those words are code for, “You are boring,you’re not exciting me in any way, so I can’t continue in this relationship. You are nice though, and I don’t want to hurt your feelings. Besides, I might one day want something from you so we can still be friends.” How long would you stay with someone who was boring? It’s not her fault.

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Now, this is not saying you should be mean. Since nice guys finish last, it would stand to reason mean guys finish first. Absolutely not. You should continue being polite and respectful. You just need to stop having nice be your best quality. Be fun, be adventurous, be creative, be sophisticated, be charismatic, be intelligent, be handsome, be sociable, Once you are described with at least one of these adjectives instead of just nice, you will no longer finish last.

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Use Those Pheromones

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Did you know that your body naturally emits pheromones that can increase attraction in the opposite sex? It’s true. This is not voodoo, it’s proven science.

 The way pheromones work is they are emitted into the air through your pores (along with sweat) then can increase attraction in potential partners who take them in through their nasal passages (like smell).

Some primitive animals are attracted to each other through pheromones alone. But, before you get too excited, among humans, it is just a small part of the attraction process. That means if you are relying on your pheromone production to attract a mate, you probably aren’t going to get very far. Also, pheromones are not the same as body odor (BO), so don’t think for a minute that you should reek of BO when before going out to pick up chicks. Furthermore, pheromones only work at close range. They won’t have any effect on someone standing on the other side of the room, only someone who is right by you (this means it will help to learn how to quickly move in close to someone without scaring them off).

However, use of pheromones can help to slightly improve your chances with potential mates or increase arousal in sexual partners. And the best part, it is completely on a subconscious level. They will just think you have a certain jenesequa.

There are a few things you can do to increase pheromone production and use pheromones to the best of your ability. The easiest thing is to use a pheromone infused product. Some body washes such as Dial Magnetic For Men are pheromone infused. You can also use a pheromone cologne such as Pherlure.

Focusing on your physical health is the best way to increase your pheromone production.  Yes, I’ve found yet another reason you should eat a healthy diet and exercise. Daily exercise will help keep you healthy and open your pores. When it comes to your diet, you should eat foods that are rich in zinc and/or take the recomended dose of a zinc supplement. Have you ever wondered why oysters are such a strong aphrodisiac?Maybe it’s not because she’s eating them, it’s because you are. Oysters are one of the best sources of zinc. Roast beef is a good main course that includes much zinc. Pumpkin seeds, peanuts, and dark chocolate are also great sources of zinc. Eating spicy foods can also open your pores. Just make sure you drink some water and/or take a breath mint or mouthwash before going in for that kiss.

You should also consider the deoderant you use. An antiperpirant will block your pores, so you might consider using a regular deoderant. I like to use a natural, aluminum free deoderant. Instead of showering before you go out and washing all the pheromones away, it might be best to shower earlier in the day. Just make sure BO isn’t a problem. When you start to feel aroused and therefore perspire, just relax. That is your body’s natural way of emitting pheromones.

An Easy Trick to Walk Confidently

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Confident body language is critical to your mental health and your ability to attract women. Upon approach, the first thing a woman is likely to notice is your walk. A confident walk is as follows:

  • Be relaxed, slow and smooth;
  • Walk erect with your back straight;
  • Step with each foot directly in front of the other, touch the heel down just before the ball of the foot;
  • Keep your chin up and head straight;
  • Allow your arms to swing naturally (you shouldn’t have to think about it, when your left foot goes forward, your right arm should swing forward and vice versa), if you make any hand gestures, try to keep them low.
  • Stick your chest out; and
  • Relax your shoulders, make sure they are not hunched forward.

An easy trick to practice walking this way when your home alone is to balance a book on top of your head as you walk. You will notice most of the above will happen naturally. Do this until it comes natural. Make sure it is fluid, not robotic. Use of a mirror or video camera can help. If you need to look to the left or right as you walk, do so without the book falling off your head.

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Once you’ve got it, remove the book and continue walking this way naturally. Get in the habit of walking this way. You and your friends may soon start to notice that you look and feel more confident and cool. Women will certainly notice. ;)
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Should You Do Online Dating?

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Many of us are afraid to try onine dating, or we tried it in the past and found it to be a complete waste of time. The top problems men have with online dating are getting responses from attractive women and when you do finally meet someone, they just aren’t who they said they were in their profile or they don’t look like their pictures.

The problems with internet dating are very much the same as meeting people in the real world. Yes, it is easier to misrepresent one’s self by posting pictures that aren’t accurate or writing stuff that isn’t true. But in real life, people misrepresent themselves too. Nearly every relationship I ever had that didn’t end well, I almost always thought that the other person just wasn’t who I thought they were.

The girl to guy ratio is bad when it comes to online dating. Again, this is a typical problem. If you notice the girl to guy ratio when you go to a bar, club, party, or most any place men typically go to meet women, you will almost always find there are far more guys than girls there.

 

The most attractive women receive extremely high volumes of messages. Therefore, they don’t have time to respond to all of them. And when they don’t respond, don’t feel bad. It’s very possible she never even bothered to read your message or check out your profile.

However, like in the real world, much of this can be overcome. Just like in the real world, some guys are way more successful than others. When you know how to do it the right way, avoid all the pitfalls, don’t make your profile and your messages just like every other guy’s, you can stand out and have fantastic results.

Online dating is great practice for the real world. When you become good at online dating, you will find that you learn what women respond to, how they want to be treated, how to turn her on, and you’ll learn how to act on a date. All these skills translate into the offline world as well.

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You Need Confidence

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Jason Upbeat here with a few words on confidence. Few things in life are universally true. Most every rule has its exceptions. However, one thing you can always bank on is that women are attracted to confident men.

Most men think they are confident, but very few really are. That is why so few men are really good at attracting women. If you think you are confident, but you struggle attracting women, your confidence is probably just a delusion.

And confidence is not the same as arrogance. The difference will be the subject of a future article, but you will require authentic confidence to be emotionally healthy and attract women.

Self-hypnosis is a great way to get started down your road to becoming confident. Just to get us started, I will post this article from HypnosisDownloads.com. Enjoy!

Improve your self confidence in 15 minutes

I used to be frighteningly under confident in social situations. And although people who know me now would never believe I used to doubt myself so much I literally had to learn confidence until it became a natural part of me. I can tell you relaxed optimistic confidence is just, well so much more fun.

Here I’ll tell you about the things that made the most difference to my confidence levels…

Some people have naturally high levels of confidence but everybody can learn to be more confident

Firstly, it’s important to get a clear idea of what self confidence really means, otherwise you won’t know when you’ve got it! So, self confidence means:

1) Being calm. For every situation in life you need to run on the appropriate level of emotion. Too much emotional ‘leakage’ into a experience can spoil the experience. You make great strides towards confidence when you begin to relax in a greater range of situations.

2) Being cool. The second part of self confidence is about being able to relax with uncertainty. To be ‘cool’ in a situation really means relaxing with not knowing how things will pan out. If you truly tolerate uncertainty, you can do pretty much anything.

3) Not being too concerned with what others think of you. You know when you imagine what some place is going to be like before you go there but when you get there it is totally different to your imagination? That’s how reliable your imagination is! Stop trusting your imagination so much. I’ve long since stopped bothering to imagine what others think of me because so often I’ve turned out to be wrong.

4) Being specific – where do you want confidence? ‘Confidence’ is meaningless until you tie it to something specific. You are already confident that you can read these words or can switch a light on and off. So you don’t need more confidence everywhere. To get what you want in life you have to establish exactly what you do want. Where do you want confidence in your life? Think about the specific situations now and write them down. You beginning to steer your brain towards confidence.

5) Understanding that what you expect is what you get. Your brain is an organ that needs clear goals to work towards. When a task has been set in your brain it will do everything it can do to bring about the completion of that task. If you’ve tried to recall someone’s name but can’t, hours later you’ll often find their name pops into your head.

The ‘trying to recall’ experience set the task or blueprint for your brain’s future subconscious behaviour which eventually produced the name for you – when you weren’t thinking about it consciously. You can use this natural mechanism to start feeling more confident. But, to ensure you set the right task for your subconscious mind, the next point is vital.

6) Don’t task your mind with negatives. Instead of: ‘I don’t want to screw up’ (which sets the task of ‘screwing up’ for your brain), set the blueprint for what you do want! Your brain doesn’t work towards what to do by being told what not to do. And nature has given you a wonderful natural tool to set the right task blueprints with.

7) Use nature’s goal-setter: Now you understand how vital it is to set the right task for you brain, you need to know how to do this reliably. Good hypnosis will strongly ‘program’ the right blueprint in your mind through the use of your imagination. If you powerfully imagine feeling confident and relaxed while in a relaxed hypnotic state it will be hard for your unconscious mind to do anything else. The blueprint for relaxation has been set firmly into your subconscious mind.

3 simple strategies to get you feeling confident quickly:

1) Think specifically of the time/place/situation you want to feel confident in. Remember ‘confidence’ doesn’t mean anything until you attach it to something specific.

2) Focus on words in your mind right now that describe how you do want to be in that time and place. Maybe words such as ‘calm’, ‘relaxed’ or ‘focused’. Remember your brain works on clear positive instructions.

3) Close your eyes for as long as you like and think about how those words feel. Then, imagine the situation itself and rehearse it in your mind feeling confident and relaxed. This way you set the right blueprint or ‘task’ for your unconscious mind.

You can repeat this often to make it more effective and use it with as many areas of your life as you need to. If you listen to a hypnotic cd or download that can make the benefits even more powerful (see my profile below). So if you feel like you’d be blessed with less confidence than some other people you can start redressing the balance by using your mind in the right way right now.

It took me years to learn how to be more confident – now you can do it in a fraction of the time. Good luck!

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Article by Mark Tyrrell of Hypnosis Downloads.com.